I think anger is something that a lot of people have a hard time dealing with. In the past, there was many times where I literally just wanted to get up and hit the person that was acting dumb and then just walk away. When I was younger, I couldn’t hold my tongue at all. If someone said something to me that didn’t sit right with me, I would go off on him or her. But, I look back on how I was and just laugh at myself. A lot of the times now, I just sit back and let the person say what they got to say, and then I calmly respond. Or, I just try and avoid it all together because I hate conflict and I hate being angry. But there are still times when I let the person hear how I really feel in an un-calmly manor i.e.: blow up.
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ReplyDeleteAnger is difficult to deal with especially not knowing what others are going thru. I was one of those kids during grade school thru high school that act dumb(lol), but my intention was to make people laugh or make that persons day better. I remember I received the worse one time because I was acting up so bad and this girl in my class told me to shut the "F" up can't you see I'm trying to learn..and she went on with how here parents gave her a hard time for failing an easy class and how they are going to whip her if she doesn't get her grades up. She was in tears while she was yelling at me. So really depends how the person is feeling that day but at the same time I learned my lesson. BTW that girl and I are still friends and we laugh about that every time we see each other. Great Post.