I think people have such a negative view of conflict because
most of the time it seems like conflict situations never end well between
people. I know everyone has that friend that always has a problem with someone
else and they vent to you and in your head you think oh man again, you are full
of conflict and I never want that. I think that if more people read the book
that we did, that they wouldn’t fear it as much, or not at all. I think this
because after reading the book, they would learn how to handle different
conflict situations. I used to hate conflict, but after reading this book I
feel like I could handle a conflict situation with ease and grace.
I think so many people try to avoid conflict so they often keep their thoughts, ideas, and feelings quiet. I don't know when in our lives we learn that conflict isn't a good thing but we spend too much time trying to avoid it than really putting together a good way to resolve problems with other people and even problems internally that we have to avoid on a personal basis.
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