Over this semester, I felt I really learned how to handle
conflict in a better way than I used to handle it. When someone had a problem
with me, I would just be like “alright tell me what is bugging you” and half
the time I just didn’t care. A lot of people I felt were just too sensitive and
didn’t quit know how to handle me or how I act. When I had a problem with
someone else, I would just tell them straight up and a lot of people didn’t like
how I approached it but I always figured why beat around the bush. But, after
going through this book, I have learned that with some people I cant do what I
usually do when it comes to conflict, and that I have to adjust the way I handle
conflict with certain people. I just feel that I handle conflict in a
completely different way then before.
I agree with you as well! I feel like taking this class made me react to conflict differently. Before taking this class, conflict was something I was not comfortable with. I would lash out and say whatever what was on my mind. Now when I am in conflict, I take a second to think about my next moved. Through this class, I have learned that when conflict arises, sometimes it is best to temporary step away from the conflict if it is heated. I can honestly say that I use the S-TLC method every single time I encounter conflict and so far, it was made conflict come out with a greater solution.
ReplyDelete